Rebirth in 1990: Rewrite Your Life 142: Circle
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Mao Na boarded the bus to the Post and Telecommunications School as the sky darkened. It was already late, and since it was Saturday, the older boys—Lao Da, Lao Si, and Cui Shuigen—had all gone out on dates with their girlfriends. Meanwhile, Lao Er, Miao Shujie, had been diligently studying in the dormitory. 0
 
After greeting Lao Er, he climbed into bed and turned on the bedside lamp, intending to read, but his thoughts were scattered and unfocused. Earlier in the day, Mao Na had mentioned that the Yao Wei Incident had finally settled: the woman involved had resigned and moved to a southern city known for being one of the first to open up. She also withdrew her accusations against Yao Wei, who was subsequently dismissed from his public office. Li Shengnan calmly proposed a divorce to him—without anger or sadness—as if nothing had ever happened between them. 0
 
This very attitude from her extinguished any hope Yao Wei had of reconciliation. The house belonged to Li Shengnan, and with their child still young, it was only natural for her to take custody. Since Li Shengnan was financially stable and Yao Wei had never contributed much of his salary, there were no further entanglements. 0
 
After receiving their divorce certificate from the civil affairs bureau, they went their separate ways. From that point on, Yao Wei faded from the sight of everyone in Annan County who knew him. Not long ago, sister Lai from Jiangcheng Evening News personally delivered an internship evaluation report from the Evening News office regarding his four-week stint as an intern reporter. The report was filled with praise: 0
 
"Hu Ruoyun demonstrated diligence and hard work during his internship at our unit. He independently developed creative and constructive ideas for work, showing a certain spirit of exploration and innovation. He quickly adapted to new concepts and provided guidance and assistance to colleagues in areas such as computer applications. 0
 
He has his own thoughts and plans, takes his responsibilities seriously, and successfully completed all tasks assigned by the newspaper… He united with his colleagues and received unanimous praise from them." 0
 
After reading this, Lai Wen presented a beautifully bound notebook: "This is a gift from my sister!" 0
 
Hu Ruoyun accepted it with both hands and opened it to find neatly pasted copies of all the articles he had published during his internship at Evening News alongside Lai Wen. Each article bore Lai Wen's name but also credited Hu Ruoyun as an "Intern Reporter." 0
 
To Hu Ruoyun, this scrapbook held immense significance; it even surpassed the value of the evaluation report. 0
 
What is a benefactor? A benefactor is someone you meet at the right time who becomes a positive influence in your life! 0
 
Perhaps influenced by the economic tide, Hu Ruoyun noticed that some college students seemed particularly restless—not focused on their studies but eager to network with fellow townsfolk or seniors… trying to connect with so-called successful individuals in society. 0
 
Some even flaunted impressive business cards in class to showcase their networking abilities. One female classmate cried in frustration after losing a card given to her by a fellow townsman; she claimed that after graduation she could work for him without needing to seek employment at a job market. 0
 
The way she mourned made it seem as if she had lost not just a small piece of paper but her entire future. 0
 
Later on, a classmate cleaning up found that card. Hu Ruoyun took a look at it; it read "Jiangcheng Advertising Group Business Director XXX," with the back detailing their services: "Production and distribution of advertising banners and promotional leaflets..." 0
 
Wasn't this just someone printing banners and distributing flyers? And they called themselves a Business Director? It seemed this "group" barely had any staff! 0
 
Even if you were qualified to handle advertising for Jiangcheng Evening News, it would still garner more attention than this. 0
 
Yet people still placed blind faith in such things. 0
 
School can teach you how to study, but some truths can only be realized after stepping into society and experiencing setbacks along the way. 0
 
Some individuals frequently flit between social circles, occasionally boasting about dining with certain leaders or drinking with specific directors… but once they leave those circles, their names might not even be remembered. 0
 
 
This society is incredibly realistic. If you lack sufficient resources and capital to exchange or earn admiration, many people will not want to associate with you; the so-called relationships are often superficial. 0
 
Let me share two true stories: 0
 
The first story is about a classmate's brother. After graduating from middle school, he worked in a rural construction team, mixing mortar, and later in a workshop for a township enterprise, and as a waiter in a restaurant in Town. He once told me, "Brother, back then when I walked down the street, people would say, 'That's so-and-so's second son; he hasn't accomplished anything. Will he even be able to marry tomorrow?'" 0
 
My classmate introduced this brother to a store in the building materials market that sold construction pipes. There was no basic salary; his income depended entirely on finding clients and generating business. Because he was willing to work hard and put in effort, he gradually opened up the market (though it was a difficult process). Later, he started his own business and eventually opened his own factory. He first bought a Passat and then upgraded to a Land Rover, and now he has constant social engagements. 0
 
The second story is about my brother-in-law. In his early years, he delivered chicken manure from a poultry farm to vegetable greenhouses, earning two to three hundred yuan a day (which was quite impressive in the early 2000s). Later, he followed his brother to run coal mining business in Datong, Shanxi, and now he is involved in engineering projects in the northwest (having achieved some success). One day after having a few drinks, he said to me, "Brother, when I was delivering chicken manure during the town's fairs, my classmates never invited me to join them. Now they all say, 'Come join us at the fair!'" 0
 
Thus, different circles do not need to be forcibly merged; different classes do not need to be forcibly integrated. The circle is not important; being strong within oneself is fundamental. 0
 
In "The Foreseen Future," Hu Ruoyun wrote a letter to his son on his WeChat Official Account: 0
 
"Son, 0
 
Your father does not intend to preach about school or education but wishes to share our family's ancestral stories for mutual encouragement. 0
 
According to your forth grandpa (great-grandfather), from your grandfather's grandfather and beyond, they were illiterate. One year during Spring Festival, your ancestor (ancestor) asked someone to write couplets for him. The person took advantage of his illiteracy and wrote: 'Buy one pound for one pound without end; borrow new debts to pay old debts without clarity.' While there is an element of rural humor in this, it also reflects our helplessness and sorrow. 0
 
In this season of 199×, your father walked into this city wearing cloth shoes with rubber soles and carrying luggage wrapped in coarse cloth sheets, feeling anxious and even fearful. 0
 
Your father was not a good student and believed that books might not necessarily lead to 'golden houses' or 'beauties like jade,' but always thought that education could mature one's mind and strengthen one's spirit. Education provides clarity and composure amidst the ever-changing social landscape; it offers more opportunities and choices for your future life! 0
 
Academic excellence requires both talent and hard work. 0
 
Your father only asks that you put in effort. 0
 
This era and society hold unimaginable wonders. Your father hopes you will 'keep pace with the times' while also being able to withstand various temptations related to the internet. 0
 
Life cannot be relived; do not waste your time during the season of learning. 0
 
Let this serve as encouragement for young people." 0
 
 
 
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