"Just go over there, show her the room, and she'll follow you, right?"
"Yes."
"It can all be done in three hours."
"After meeting her, well, sometimes I can't understand it myself, but it's true; three hours is more than enough."
This was undoubtedly the most psychologically astute criminal when it came to understanding women. In just three hours, he could persuade a complete stranger to willingly go to a hotel with him and even invest a significant amount of money in him.
Every time he deceived a woman, he would burn himself with a cigarette, marking his skin. In less than a year, he had turned himself into what could only be described as a "toad."
With his silver tongue, he managed to enthrall hundreds of women. Not only did he deceive them for their affections, but he also embezzled over ten million in funds. Can you believe that?
This man, standing at only 1.7 meters tall, with an ordinary appearance and some disabilities—how did he conquer the hearts of so many women?
The man before us is named Ma Denyi. Born in 1984 in a poor village in Ningxia, his fate seemed intertwined with that of his father, Ma Hua, from the moment he entered the world.
Ma Hua dropped out of school before finishing elementary education and entered society at a young age. Despite having an unstable job, he had an innate charm that attracted women.
Throughout his life, he married three wives, each more beautiful than the last. Ma Denyi was born to Ma Hua's second wife.
Ma Denyi's mother was only fifteen years younger than his father; not only was she well-built, but she was also exceptionally attractive.
Life was once relatively happy, but there were too many women pursuing Ma Hua, and he often flirted with others outside.
Eventually, after moving in with his girlfriend who was thirty years younger than him, he was caught in bed by Ma Denyi's mother. Following that incident, Ma Denyi's parents chose to divorce.
Under the influence of his father, Ma Denyi's psyche became distorted and twisted.
Before he even finished middle school, he had already dropped out.
After that, he didn’t work and instead immersed himself in the internet, treating the internet café as his home. Lacking funds to go online, he often resorted to petty thefts. Over time, he became a cynical little hoodlum.
Whenever his father tried to educate him, Ma Denyi felt a strong aversion to his father's good intentions. He believed that it was precisely because of his father that his childhood felt so isolated, often facing exclusion from his siblings.
Moreover, influenced by his father, he developed a severely distorted view of women. He thought women were merely toys for men and believed that by emulating his father’s behavior, he could easily manipulate them.
However, while browsing online one day, Ma Denyi stumbled upon a book on female psychology, which sparked a deep interest in him. He then went to a bookstore and bought several similar books for study.
While reading these books, Ma Denyi not only absorbed the knowledge but also made personal summaries and expressed his opinions on everything discussed within them.
But how effective were these insights? Perhaps only through practice could he truly know. To validate his theoretical conclusions, he began searching online for targets to practice on.
"Are you feeling down?"
"You’re asking that right off the bat."
Typically, when chatting online, people are often feeling empty or downcast; seizing on this sentiment allowed him to engage them in conversation.
How could he determine that they were engaging in empty online chats?
"90% of people would do this."
"What would the other person say to you?"
"She would keep sticking to you, asking why you asked that. In that case, I would tell her that I feel like I only use the internet as a tool for venting when I'm bored or feeling particularly down, just to release my inner thoughts. After that... we would just continue chatting."
It was clear that Ma Denyi did not rely on traditional greetings but instead chose a more clever approach that made the other person feel cared for.
Through his research, he found that many women go online either out of emptiness or when they are feeling low. Therefore, expressing concern in such an opening line would quickly win the other person's favor and spark curiosity and further questions.
He also knew that women generally love gossip, so he took advantage of this by crafting one touching story after another.
"There was a child who lost his mother at a young age and was abandoned by his father. He lived with his grandmother until he was 16, when he finally met his father again. To avoid being a burden to his father, he worked hard and eventually moved his father, who sent him abroad for studies.
After returning home, this child showcased his talents in his father's real estate company and eventually became the vice president. However, despite his successful career, he lost his beloved fiancée in a car accident, and since then, he has never felt happy again. You wouldn't be talking about yourself, would you?"
"You guessed it right; it's me."
"Really?"
"Yes, really. If you don't believe me, you can check. My name is Yu Jie, and I am the vice president of China Resources Group."
As he told the story, Ma Denyi gradually revealed that the protagonist was himself, which made the other person feel sympathy for him and develop a liking for him.
As their conversation continued, they became more engaged and eventually decided to meet offline.
Every time they met, Ma Denyi would dress sharply in a suit, presenting himself as a successful individual. He would also rent luxury cars and choose upscale restaurants for their meals.
During their meal, Maden exhibited a very gentlemanly demeanor, his generosity immediately suggesting that he was a trustworthy person.
As these women became deeply enchanted by him, it was time for him to start reeling them in. They were all thoroughly captivated by the carefully orchestrated scenarios and performances crafted by Maden.
What they didn’t realize was that they were gradually stepping into Maden's trap. Even when they checked into a hotel, the women willingly offered to pay for the room.
"Just tell him about the money on my card, since the ATM only allows withdrawals of up to 20,000 a day. For instance, if I run out of money, then I would take out my own cash. After that, we would go to the hotel, and I would be more than willing to do whatever."
"Will you bring it up yourself or give her some kind of hint?"
"No hints or suggestions; just go there, check the room, and take her upstairs."
"She just follows you?"
"Exactly."
"It only takes three hours to accomplish all this?"
"After meeting, sometimes I can't even understand it myself, but it's true—three hours is completely sufficient. I even tell others that they shouldn't be afraid I'm a scammer. They say even if I were scamming them, they still feel it's worth it."
"What does that mean?"
"I don't know."
Once in the room, he showcased his unique charm. With just a few hours of deep conversation, the women developed a strong emotional dependency on him. After they were hooked, he would concoct various lies, claiming he had suffered investment failures or had been swindled out of his money.
Seeing Maden in such a distraught state made the women feel sorry for him, prompting them to offer him money. However, during the police investigation, it was discovered that although Maden had deceived nearly a hundred women, none of them chose to report him, which puzzled the authorities greatly.
"He has deceived many young married women, you know, the kind who might not want to come forward due to privacy reasons."
"He told us he has scammed over ninety of them. He said himself that if you investigate, you won't find much evidence."
"I think there are a few types of women who have been deceived.
First, there are those who are vain and seeking shortcuts, often found in nightlife settings.
The second type is those who are dissatisfied with their business or career. They think they’ve found a partner who is a big player from Hong Kong and end up investing.
The third type consists of those who are unhappy in their relationships. There’s a small portion of victims who I don’t even know how to approach; they just don’t seem to care."
"They have been deceived."
"They know about their money, and some even realize he is a con artist yet still choose to continue the relationship."
"When I was scamming people, whether in Kunming or Chengdu, I left behind many loopholes."
"These loopholes were so obvious that even a middle school student could spot them, yet the people I deceived failed to see them."
Can you believe it? Even when they know they’ve been scammed, these women willingly continue to associate with him.
Some of these women have families; even when they realize they’ve been tricked, they don’t want the truth to come out.
As a result, Ma Denyi became increasingly reckless without facing any consequences.
Although Ma Denyi thinks his methods aren’t particularly clever and that anyone with common sense can see through them, these women remain utterly devoted to him, each one a testament to pure love.
After successfully scamming once again, he would leave a burn mark on his shoulder, like a medal of victory. He remembered every woman he had deceived—their appearances, their figures, and the amounts they had lost to him, with the highest scam reaching over 500,000.
"What does this cigarette burn represent?"
"It represents a mark of someone I have harmed."
"Then why do you keep it on yourself?"
"That's something I find hard to explain to myself."
And everything only took two days.
Although the money he scammed amounted to millions, he never invested or bought property; instead, he squandered it all.
Ma Denyi enjoyed frequenting high-end venues, relishing the attention and preferring to be called "Boss Ma" or "Handsome Guy."
For Ma Denyi, deceiving women became like a job, a result of his twisted upbringing and his father's misguided education.
From Ma Denyi's middle school classmates, it was learned that his childhood was fraught with difficulties and that his father was extremely irresponsible. This gradually warped Ma Denyi's psyche and led him further down a path of distorted values, ultimately driving him into a life of crime by deceiving women.
Despite the enormous sums he scammed, very few came forward to testify against him, and in the end, he was sentenced to only six years in prison.
Years later, Ma Denyi had completed his sentence and was released.
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